My husband believes that when we receive an indivisible gift, both he and I should write separate thank-you note messages.

I knew he wasn’t divorced, but it’s been 15 months since his wife left. I feel I’m good enough for him, but then I’m dismissed when his children want him. Sometimes, my heart gets in the way of good ...

I feel guilty saying no to any of this, but I also feel the resentment beginning to grow. I want to be a good employee and a reliable, compassionate friend. How do I know where to draw the line? -- ...